Andcatchyoueverymanhiswife - That is, Let each man of the two hundred Benjamites seize and carry off a woman, whom he is, from that hour, to consider as his wife.
SDA Bible Commentary (limited)
Volume 1-7
21. Daughters of Shiloh. Only the males were commanded to come to these feasts (Ex. 23:17; Deut. 16:16). Sometimes the men were accompanied by their wives and daughters, but the majority of the women present would be those who lived in or near Shiloh.
Dance. At the harvest festivals social occasions were provided as well as religious services (see PP 540).