Andtalkedwiththewoman - That is, concerning marriage; thus forming the espousals.
Matthew Henry
Concise Bible Commentary
By enabling him to kill a lion, God let Samson know what he could do in the strength of the Spirit of the Lord, that he might never be afraid to look the greatest difficulties in the face. He was alone in the vineyards, whither he had rambled. Young people consider not how they exposed themselves to the roaring lion that seeks to devour, when they wander from their prudent, pious parents. Nor do men consider what lions lurk in the vineyards, the vineyards of red wines. Our Lord Jesus having conquered Satan, that roaring lion, believers, like Samson, find honey in the carcass abundant strength and satisfaction, enough for themselves, and for all their friends.
SDA Bible Commentary (limited)
Volume 1-7
7. He went down. No mention is made of the participation of his parents in the arrangements. Some have thought that although they had started with Samson, they probably refused to go through with their part of the affair.